With Valentine’s Day just around the corner, not everyone is in the spirit – especially the recently unengaged.

Never fear – country singer Jo Dee Messina has been there before, and has a great pick-me-up. Now married to Chris Deffenbaugh since October 2007, the 40-year-old singer known for hits including Bye-Bye, Burn and Heads California, Tails California is mom to son Noah, 1. more!